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34 and a week!

April 28th, 2014 · 100 Days Project, Children, College students, Education, Musings, retirement, Teaching & Learning

Well, okay, somewhere, and I know where, more than a few days went by!  This, however, is what my life usually looks like!  What did I do in that time that claimed my time?  Let’s see: taught classes, supervised student teachers, spent the day in NYC getting there via a bus trip that the Art Department sponsors each semester, spent a day at my first all day line-dancing workshops, and the usual bout of laundry, dishes and all of that!

One thing it did include was a wonderful dinner out with ten of my previous student teachers.  They had hoped to surprise me, I guess, but realized how hard that really is to pull off, so invited me to a local pub for dinner.  It was more than lovely.  They shared with me, and each other, how their lives were going, what they were doing in the field, and more.  One is at a four year college, a couple are employed but not with young children, the rest are working in various ways with young children, and a couple are finishing up their two year degree and graduating this semester.

There were many sweet moments, including a gift of two books and the request to read them aloud!  And, when they were sharing their favorite stories, I really appreciated that it was very meaningful things to me: that I sat on the floor and modeled how to work with children, that I individualized their work as much as possible, that I understood their life challenges, and taught them to communicate.  Wow!  I was really moved.

I really was validated for my hard work by their words.  Thank you for allowing me to be your teacher.  What you don’t know if how much you taught me in return.

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40 and playing hooky

April 23rd, 2014 · 100 Days Project, eating, Museums, Musings, retirement

After a morning student teacher observation visit, hubby and I played hooky!  Drive a bit south to see a few great exhibits at the Springfield (MA) Museums!  A little rain didn’t spoil the day of art, lunch at the cafe and yogurt on the way home!

How does one play hooky in retirement?

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41and nature

April 22nd, 2014 · 100 Days Project, Children, College students, Education, Musings, Reading, retirement

It really struck me today that I’m six classes away from the end of my adult teacher education teaching career.

I walked the two miles to work on a beautiful spring day enjoying the college’s many marshes and ducks coming to spend their spring with us. In early childhood curriculum class we talked about one of our texts: Last Child in the Woods.  I had been on a hike this past weekend and enjoyed the thrill of the frogs singing in a vernal pool.  It was Earth Day, and I remembered that I’d been among the millions who had joined protests that day (I was a sophomore in high school and it was my first activist moment).

As I tied all of these thoughts, events and ideas together in our class discussion of Louv’s fourth frontier, it occurred to me that these were the rich moments of learning I really love.  One student thought Earth Day was a Hallmark event (oh, dear).  A few had fond memories of planting trees at their elementary schools in honor of Earth Day.  All had something to say about nature and its importance in the early care and education environment.

It was a great discussion.  This time of the semester students enjoy each others’ opinions, push each others’ thinking, and are even willing to say, “oops, I didn’t read all three assigned chapters, but I’d like to say something about the two I did read?”

Without a doubt, I know my moments of good conversations with good people struggling to grapple with important ideas are not over.  I did feel today that they are over in this way: in my own classroom with people I’ve formed learning relationships with for ten weeks and I’m pushing to push themselves to learn even more, and to see its importance to their work with our youngest citizens.

I really shall miss that.

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43, 42 and skills

April 21st, 2014 · 100 Days Project, family, Musings, retirement, time

I found this website/blog by Bob Lowry today and really liked his question:  “Do you lack the necessary skills to retire?”   Although, truth be told, I would have asked it as “Do you have the necessary skills to retire?”  I spent a few minutes looking at blogs about retirement and soon tired of the topics: money – do you have enough or not: time – what to do with it, because apparently we’ll have too much of it: feelings – should you or shouldn’t you have done it, because apparently we’ll have more feelings about it than we’ve had about anything else: family – because apparently they demand more of you when you have more time and don’t realize you have less money: and more money.  I soon tired of them all.  And, frankly, some retired bloggers writing about retirement spend too much time blogging — I really don’t think blog entries should be several pages long!

I appreciated the discussion on this site of the journey that retirement is and will be. I think the skills were really on-target and good questions. I had to think about all of these issues as a newlywed, as a mother, as a part of making job decisions – basically throughout my life.  I know that I have to continue to think, plan and be smart about this next portion of my life.  But, please, it’s just a part of life.

I am so aware of how fortunate I am to retire from this job at 60.  I also know that I have a lot of plans and life will still be, at times, interesting, sad, lonely, exciting, frustrating and stressful.

I’m not leaving my life behind at retirement.  I’m not checking it at the door.  In fact, I’m opening another door and what an adventure lies ahead!  (And, yes, I have a financial plan, have discussed issues with my family, and have many hobbies!)

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44 and plans

April 19th, 2014 · 100 Days Project, family, Musings, My Goals, retirement, time

Sooner or later I’m going to die, but I’m not going to retire.
Margaret Mead

The closer I get to “retirement,” the more I really understand why it was so hard for my father.  He had his first heart attack in his 40s, and although he didn’t have many more – remarkably given that he didn’t change his life habits much – he did die by 64.  He did begin to have bad health, and his work asked him to retire early a couple of years before his death.  He had a teenager he was raising with his sister, and a love of ham radios, but didn’t really pick up any other hobbies.  The slow life was very hard for him.

I have so many hobbies and interests that I fear my retirement will be busier than my work life!

 

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