Professor Sharon

This weekend we had our daughter and grand-baby staying with us. We had hoped for Friday as well, but a winter sleet and ice storm did that idea in! We had a lovely Saturday and Sunday together – eating meals, playing, climbing stairs (lots of them – put any toddler in a space with stairs and it’s entertaining for a minimum of two hours!), and planning.

We had to do some business as our daughter is back-up for our banks, and business and other practical matters that you have to make plans to cover when away even on a short vacation. Mostly we enjoyed their company knowing that it would be at least a two month stretch before we saw them. This, of course, has happened in the past — my children have gone to college, to study abroad and to live in other US states (actually we’re lucky when we get to see our son more than twice a year some years).

But we have to admit missing the baby for that long is surely going to be missing some amazing growth spurts. After a few tries with calling me “gamma;” she lighted upon “da-ba!” this weekend! And she knew she’d invented it – we’re sure! Ask her to point to Gramma Shannie – she points to me. Ask her to point to Da-ba – she points to me. Each time with a smile that tells you somewhere in the brain is evolving a very funny sense of humor!

And, my best girlfriend – our daughter – will be sorely missed. She is the most amazingly capable and strong woman I know; and she’ll be okay without my physical presence – but I shall miss our almost daily phone calls dearly.

We also held a salon. For two or three years now, we’ve hopefully been brightening up two or three Saturday evenings during the New England winter by having friends, acquaintances, and their acquaintances stop by for a few hours of appetizers, drinks and great conversation. We had about a dozen folks and a great evening.

A few folks had brought travel quotes for us. My favorite: “Traveling in the company of those we love is home in motion.” Leigh Hunt

My home will be with me on this trip: it is a funny coincidence that my hubby of 36 years and I leave on Valentine’s day. He and I have sailed many a metaphoric and real storm together – not to mention the glorious sunsets.

But I shall miss, and think daily, of the girl, the grand-girl, the boy and the other girl, and all those who stay behind. I shall bring you all in my heart.